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What's something you wish you could do again for the first time?
spedup 1267969Mar 21, 25
Is there an experience you wish you could relive as if it were brand new? Maybe it's the thrill of your first roller coaster ride, the excitement of discovering a favourite book or movie, or the joy of a special trip. What s something you d love to experience again for the very first time, and why?
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  • Lucie 1571988
    My first flight on a Cessna. I discovered the world ...with new birds' eyes !
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    • Melanie 1651425
      J'aurais bien aimé ne pas avoir été accidentée à mon travail que j'allais justement avoir mon Tim Hortons à moi vers 2007. J'étais là formatrice du Québec sur les 5 sélectionner à l'époque du Canada en 1999. J'ai été 3iemes au Canada 👍 mais numéro 1 au Québec seulement. Mon père et ma famille m'appalaient " the Queen of Quebec Canada for Tim Hortons❤️". Je m'appalais par le surnom donné par mon père. Mely. J'ai toujours apprécié ce surnom donné pcq ds les années 70 Chantal Paris à sortie une chanson pour sa fille née en 76. Mélanie. Drôle d'administration ma mère aimait bien cette chanteuse donc la moitié de ma génération s'appelle inci donc pour me différencier des autres mon père voulait lui m'appeler Mélyssa mais il a perdu le prénom mais pas le surnom. Il m'appellait toujours Mély. Donc à partir de mon premier jour de maternelle il a averti le prof inci que le directeur de l'école que je me retourne seulement si on m'appelle Mély où mon nom de famille mais c'était mieux Mély pour sa part pcq il m'avait habitué inci à cause de la génération des Mélanie. Il a toujours eu minimum 4 Mélanie avec moi dans la classe toujours jusqu'au secondaire et jamais je me retournais à Mélanie seulement Mély. Merci Dad ❤️ je t'❤️ fort et tu seras jamais dans mon coeur malgré que sa va faire 14 ans que tu nous a quittés pour un monde meilleur. Tu es mon mentor xx mon héros et tu m'as appris que même dans la pire des maladies il faut jamais abandonner pourquoi le seigneur nous a mis au monde. Si on a des obstacles ses qu'on est capable de les affranchis. 🙏tu étais un homme très intelligent même un scientifique/chimique de 98% moyenne générale et tu étais très fière de ta grande fille Mély qui a eu 98.9% pour pas marqué 99% dans le bulletin dans le temps. Bref tu as vue au moins que je suis venue mini-boss d'entreprise Tim Hortons et sa te rendu fière avant que tu partes et en plus je t'ai enfin donner un petit-fils que t'a eu 6ans à connaître et tu en étais fier pcq j'ai tenue ma promesse j'ai donné le nom complet de ton père en anglais vue que mon conjoint de l'époque était irlandais et nous gaspésien/irlandais aussi alors c'était cute et grand-père paternel au ciel 🙏 a surement été très fier de sa petite-fille adorée 🙏❤️ je continue et je te promets de ne jamais abandonner et le transférer de la même façon à mon grand garçon de 20 ans merci seigneur 🙏
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      • Microwaved~Robot
        I wouldn't have gotten married. I would have had the same children, with the same man, just not gotten that piece of paper we so think that we need.
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        • Teri 1282723
          If I were able to go back in time I'd like to be able to marry the right man.
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          • Melanie 1651425
            Pas facile à trouver je sais pas ton âge mais moi je vais avoir 48 ans je suis née dans les fin 70 et sa pas été facile non plus pour bcp d'entre nous mais je ne changerai rien pcq sinon j'aurais pas eu mon fils de 20ans avec mon ex conjoint 👍
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        • Sorya 1650324
          Tomber amoureuse
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          • Liane H
            That first crush ..then the kiss .
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            • Noreen 1641671
              I can't think of anything at the moment things must be good
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              • Priscilla R 316016
                Meet my late husband again and have another wonderful 40 years with him.
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                • Missy Wyld
                  having sex :P lol
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                  • Jamella 1650413
                    See my father
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                    • Jennifer H 722364
                      Driving a car
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                      • Deidre 1621845
                        Fall in love
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                        • Paula J 395266
                          I'd love to see Venice again for the first time. I stepped off the train and wasn't prepared for it to be there glistening in the sun. It was a surprise because I thought we would have to walk to get there.
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                          • Rabbitohs
                            Not good to go there now, there are Tourist Taxes and many locals don't want tourists anymore
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                          • Paula J 395266Rabbitohs
                            How sad.
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                        • Uma 1650757
                          I would really appreciate a chance at bungee jumping
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                          • Ek M
                            Fall in love
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                            • Katzeye
                              It's X rated lol
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                              • Ann 1498966
                                Run my first marathon.
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                                • Pat C 618241
                                  My first attempt to skate on ice. Had not tried skates before - never managed to since, so still wish I could learn this skill!
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                                  • Angie
                                    Can I please pick two experiences that I wish I could relive? First, making eye contact with my new baby daughter for the first time and bonding with her 😍Secong, discovering life beneath the ocean waters while snorkelling the coral reefs that are teeming with life. Fish, corals, seahorses, sponges, and sea turtles 🐢🪸🐟🐠🐡
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                                    • stephen m 596524
                                      don't get married
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                                      • Teri 1282723
                                        I said marry the right man, but to not get married at all may be the better option.
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                                    • Joe B 288252
                                      Nothing but there are lots of things I like doing again and again
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                                      • debra j 18701
                                        it would have been great to meet family members that where born before way before 1953 , that is when I was born , and when I was 2 yrs old I had lost my real dad .
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                                        • Sandra C 12043
                                          Yes meet my brother for the first time. I was 20. I didn't even know he existed. I was adopted but in my mind I always felt I had a connection to a .brother. Never asked but it was always in my mind.
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                                          • Aussie Wayne
                                            My education
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                                            • Ellen P 667007
                                              Most of all have my children all over again! I've made lots of mistakes and still paying for it with one of them. Regrets are just awful to live with.
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                                              • just me- NZ
                                                Same
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                                              • Teri 1282723
                                                Try not to beat yourself up. One thing may stand out in your mind but one thing can be forgiven. We do our best at the time and we can't live in regret. I did that for many years and finally forgave myself for not being perfect. None of us are perfect and our kids cannot demand that of us.
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                                              • Teri 1282723just me- NZ
                                                Please read my response to Ellen P. It goes for you as well:)
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                                              • Ellen P 667007Teri 1282723
                                                Thanks for the kind words. God bless you!
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                                            • diana 1578758
                                              School
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                                              • Anna 1632034
                                                My childhood life was great
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                                                • Tania NSW
                                                  Definitely have better health so we could have children.
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                                                  • Bugalugs
                                                    As this is a family site I don't think it would be appropriate for me to mention it! But it does go back to my early teens!
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                                                    • Pam G 449028
                                                      Marry a man that absolutely loved and adored me
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                                                      • Carol S 657195
                                                        I agree. After many years and two divorces, I have realized that I missed out on marrying that man that truly loved me for me and in the right way. Now I'm 72, and I'm all alone with no children or a man to rely on although many of my classmates are rapidly becoming widdows. They do, however, have children and grandchildren who love them. Friends can never replace your family! I am blessed by having great friends and support and am able to live alone. I'm not sure how long I can do that, but I can't worry about something that I hope never happens. We all want to die at home surrounded by people who love us. God is always with me, and I pray every night for deeper faith because He has gotten me this far!
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                                                      • Teri 1282723Carol S 657195
                                                        I am also alone after marrying two of the wrong men and years of abuse. I do have children and grandchildren and am happy with them. But to be alone is so much better than being with the wrong person. I am thinking with this question that maybe with the right man the kids would be different, happier, possibly healthier. But I can't go there. Life is what makes us who we are today and I love myself. If you love yourself and know that God is with you, that's really a wonderful place to be:)
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                                                    • Manel 1271300
                                                      Absolutely Nothing! The life spent was the best experience in my life! I wouldn't want anything different!😀
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                                                      • Carol S 657195
                                                        You are lucky. I hope that is true. Most of us have screwed up something! LOL Good job! I'll probably have to come back and try it again. Eventually, I hope to get it right! That darned free weill bites you every time! LOL
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                                                      • Manel 1271300Carol S 657195
                                                        Thanks Carol for your thoughts. Yes I had good parents who gave me a good life as a child and when it was my turn as a grown up studied hard got good jobs and it paved my way to a good life! It’s no secret the good guidance and hard-work had always paid for my life. Therefore, I don’t have to change a bit, I loved my entire life! Often I was satisfied with what I achieved 😊👌
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                                                    • Elizabeth A 807208
                                                      Spend more time with my children when they were little. Mums are so different today. I live alongside my grandson and his wife and they have a three year old and a nine month old. They have such wonderful fun with their children I often think that's what I should have done instead of washing nappies and keeping house clean. I was fanatic about those things but then again they have new equipment and throw away nappies and washing machines that goes through a whole cycle of washing without having to do anything. However, I am spending that time with my great grandchildren and really enjoying it.
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                                                      • Kelly 1436617
                                                        Travel to third world countries and help the poor
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                                                        • willow w 801839
                                                          Never have kids
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                                                          • Jania S
                                                            NOTHING, why are there so many 'strange' questions, I dont want to relive anything, I am look forward to new never experienced activities
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                                                            • Debra Jay 1237276
                                                              Nothing I can think of at the moment!
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                                                              • Roeli L
                                                                Not much, as not into redoes....
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                                                                • Andrew C 287196
                                                                  Unlike Hollywood, where they almost only do redos these days. 😉 Remakes, reboots, resurrections galore - almost none of them worth watching nor anywhere as good as the original!
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                                                              • Larry S 382961
                                                                I would like more time to do extensive family tree research. Danish is very hard if no speak or read it
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                                                                • Linda C
                                                                  Not into do overs. However, if I had a wish I think it would be to never have married or had children, got an education and traveled much much more.
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                                                                  • Christopher G 852755
                                                                    birth of my daughter
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                                                                    • lynda e 390007
                                                                      I would go back to when our kids were young slow down and savor it more
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                                                                      • Shawn B 1061185
                                                                        I would like to have my pants scared off from reading a great horror novel for the first time.
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                                                                        • Suzanne H 205302
                                                                          I would love to go back to doing primary school. I would definitely aim higher than I did this time round. I would believe in myself more and know that I can achieve whatever I put my mind to!
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                                                                          • Daniel A 2
                                                                            there are so many things I'd have to go over it is not funny. Although to tell the truth I do often wonder what it would have been like if I had have watched Starwars 1 before Starwars 4. (IE starwars 4 was made in 1977, starwars 1 made in 1999).
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                                                                            • Maria B 89860
                                                                              ... yes, it's all a bit back to front and topsy turvy, a bit like the way they form their sentences .. guess George Lucas based that a bit on his heritage??!!
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                                                                          • Gaza
                                                                            The birth of my children.
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                                                                            • Julie 1592338
                                                                              I would love to go back to my teens when men were gentlemen opening doors and the whistle I would get walking down the street from young men driving past that were genuine
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                                                                              • Mary 97420
                                                                                Do it all over again seeing I am 78 now , It would be nice
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                                                                                • robyn m 1081749
                                                                                  meet my husband, I felt wonderful and excited at the look in his eyes.
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                                                                                  • Julie 1574648
                                                                                    I would give anything to go back 25 years and have all my kids be little again and do it over again. I miss them living with me 😞
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                                                                                    • Empress
                                                                                      not get married, should have kicked him to the kerb
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                                                                                      • Denise S 164096
                                                                                        Buy a house earlier than I did …..instead of waiting.
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                                                                                        • Val 1394045
                                                                                          Get married to the right person.
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                                                                                          • Daniel T 626103
                                                                                            Walking up the gangway of the Africa Mercy in Liberia.
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                                                                                            • Dela 1390056
                                                                                              When I first learned to drive. It was a a narrow road with lots of potholes, but I made it without causing damage to car or to others.
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                                                                                              • Maureen G-Melb.Vic.
                                                                                                Laura W I have seen Andre Rieu at the theatre a couple of times, but how exciting that you saw the performance in Prague that would be wonderful.
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                                                                                                • Maureen G-Melb.Vic.
                                                                                                  I would love to see Phantom of the Opera again. I have seen it twice each version was a little different. I just love it, the music is just beautiful.
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                                                                                                  • Kara 1634369
                                                                                                    My bomb of a car was rear ended and the insurance pay out was only $3,000 which in this economy was not very much. I impulsively bought a car of around $23,000 with a car loan with little research which may have been part of a manic episode. I wish I could go back to the experience of my first time being in a serious car accident and seek out more research and buy a cheaper car.
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                                                                                                    • Lance P 1114997
                                                                                                      Loose my virginity
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                                                                                                      • Barbara H 1073102
                                                                                                        i knew you would show up to answer this question.
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                                                                                                      • Lance P 1114997Barbara H 1073102
                                                                                                        You are so sweet, have a wonderful day.
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                                                                                                    • Raelz
                                                                                                      Sex
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                                                                                                      • Jane M 438289
                                                                                                        Yes but I won't tell you.
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                                                                                                        • Laura W 363255
                                                                                                          Seeing Andre Rieu at first concert in Perth absolutely amazing. Have also been to his concert in Prague. Now watch concerts at the cinema.
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                                                                                                          • lin r
                                                                                                            nothing
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                                                                                                            • Grommie
                                                                                                              A helicopter flight from the deck of a ship. First time was a long time ago...
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                                                                                                              • Robert T 597718
                                                                                                                to visit and live in Rhodesia and join the army
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                                                                                                                • boy blunder
                                                                                                                  back in 88, I saw Pink Floyd's Momentary Lapse of Reason tour it was at Thebarton Oval, I could relive that concert over and over, there must have been 15 to 20,000 people, Roger Waters had left the band but David Gilmore more than made up for it, I can still close my eyes and put myself there, they played a lot of older tunes and when your in a crowd of 20,000 and they are all singing Wish You Were Here, nothing mattered at all, the world with all its problems had gone away, and apart from holding each of my kids/grandkids it was one of the greatest times of my life
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                                                                                                                  • Susan H 801435
                                                                                                                    Celebrate birthdays from long ago (as in, be YOUNG AGAIN!).
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                                                                                                                    • Mark 1644145
                                                                                                                      Definatley my first Pizza, that was insane lol
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                                                                                                                      • Sheree T
                                                                                                                        The best day of my experience was 49 years ago when my husband and I got married when we were in the Navy together.
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                                                                                                                        • Lorne M
                                                                                                                          My first airplane ride at 10 years old. It was a reward for passing with Honours that year. Dad took me out to the Mt Hope airport. We took off in a Cessna and flew over our house to wave at my mom in the backyard. I've been hooked on aircraft ever since ... but never was able to afford flight training. Now I volunteer at Canadian Warplane Heritage Museum at that same airport. I work ground crew, restorations, and operate a communications command centre when there is an airshow on site. As a volunteer, I get the chance to fly occasionally and have taken the controls on a number of the warbirds...under strict supervision of the pilot in command of course. Dreams can come true...even if delayed 60 years. Check out www.warplane.com
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                                                                                                                          • JANN R
                                                                                                                            Learning to ski in the alpes in germany I had the best intructor and he could not believe I had never skied before and I won the down hill ski at the end of our 2 weeks there it was one of the best things I had ever done and my intructor was over the moon when I won
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                                                                                                                            • Maria B 89860
                                                                                                                              Probably my very first vanila ice cream, can still remember the thrill and magical taste ... wished it still tasted the same .. there are too many imitations out there at the moment .. am serious thinking of making my own and see it it passes the taste test!
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                                                                                                                              • Woofers
                                                                                                                                Hi Maria B, Do it while you still can, don't wait! Enjoy.
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                                                                                                                              • Maria B 89860Woofers
                                                                                                                                Okey, donkey, thanks for the encouragement Woofers, cheers, mb.
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                                                                                                                            • Chris M 626341
                                                                                                                              I remember how exciting the first circus I went to was and would love to re-live that experience. Repeats never live up to expectations though.
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                                                                                                                              • Karin L
                                                                                                                                Start my whole life over, as my life sucks!!
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                                                                                                                                • John 1411099
                                                                                                                                  Go back and stay in the Royal Australian Navy only served 12 years so should have served 20 years for the full defense force pension
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                                                                                                                                  • JANN R
                                                                                                                                    well done my husdand was in the austrlian army and thats how I was in germany to learn to ski
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                                                                                                                                • Cynthia 1521546
                                                                                                                                  Nope nothing I can think of!
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                                                                                                                                  • Norman PSBHRJ
                                                                                                                                    Definitely my first time having sex. It was amazing.
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                                                                                                                                    • SALLY 1524378
                                                                                                                                      Have sex: my 1st time was just not that spectacular.
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                                                                                                                                      • Tupulua S
                                                                                                                                        never forget the very first time sex with my girlfriend and we got married and still my best partner
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                                                                                                                                    • heather 1114095
                                                                                                                                      Sex
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                                                                                                                                      • Jeanine R
                                                                                                                                        Interesting comments. I had to think about this because my life is different now. I suppose I would see my first Barry Manilow concert, It was really in awe that night. By the way I have been to 23 or so.
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                                                                                                                                        • writerrochelle
                                                                                                                                          Oximoran! Again, for the first time! LOL! I understand what you're asking. I can't think of anything I've ever done that I'd love to experience again...I've got it! Being baptized! It was February 23, 1991, at Greenwood, SC! What an amazing experience! ;-D
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                                                                                                                                          • Carolyn H 319412
                                                                                                                                            I would like to marry and have it last longer than my first marriage did.
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                                                                                                                                            • Susan KTC
                                                                                                                                              ‘On the roam’ new experiences, new opportunities, new places to see and explore! I will do it again, my gypsy self is keen 🤩
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                                                                                                                                              • misfortune8
                                                                                                                                                I'd reread "The Hobbit" & "The Lord of the Rings". I seldom reread books because there are too many books I want to read in my lifetime. Reading those books for the first time was magical
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                                                                                                                                                • pam rae
                                                                                                                                                  being on the miami fla swim club ,was great fun,competing...
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                                                                                                                                                  • BLACK LIVES MATTER
                                                                                                                                                    IF I could go back in time: I would address regrets, I would address personal reflections, and I would address philosophical considerations. Unfortunately, I STILL would make the same mistakes over and over, just like societies (COUNTRIES) do over and over again (LOL)!
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                                                                                                                                                    • Susan KTC
                                                                                                                                                      Maybe not LOL🤣
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                                                                                                                                                    • Jane M 438289
                                                                                                                                                      More true than not
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                                                                                                                                                  • Frank K 593543
                                                                                                                                                    Being in the surf club again.
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                                                                                                                                                    • Paul B 522937
                                                                                                                                                      Can’t think of any
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                                                                                                                                                      • Rod 1479101
                                                                                                                                                        I will keep this one private...if you know what I mean? LOL
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                                                                                                                                                        • Lachelle B
                                                                                                                                                          Lol I was going to mention the same thing....
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                                                                                                                                                        • Rod 1479101Lachelle B
                                                                                                                                                          Too funny.
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                                                                                                                                                        • Lyn 78550
                                                                                                                                                          I think I was going to do the same. lol. Have a good day. x
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                                                                                                                                                      • michelle 1647263
                                                                                                                                                        first time when I was 5 I had to take drama classes and being on stage was so awesome I was so nervous made a mistake but keep on going and I passed it
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                                                                                                                                                        • Linda 3
                                                                                                                                                          A trip I took with my three friends a year after high school. A week at the beach, nightlife, etc. It was our first time on vacation without our families/parents and first trip on a plane. Great memories,
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                                                                                                                                                          • Leisa J
                                                                                                                                                            The first time watching a play on stage with an orchestra . It's still special but the first time was magical.
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                                                                                                                                                            • APB
                                                                                                                                                              Any time where you should have been dead and survived...there is NOTHING better than that....the surge you get is massive...
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                                                                                                                                                              • Hamzah S
                                                                                                                                                                Going on a trip by myself for the first time was a real adventure.
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                                                                                                                                                                • Peter C 649111
                                                                                                                                                                  Race at the speedway. So enjoyable it was and exciting.
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