I find that I seem to able to “bounce back” easier than alot of people I know. I give myself a little time to recover and then I shake it off and continue with life. I attribute that to hardship fairly early in life; an abusive marriage followed by 16 years of being a struggling single mom. I didn’t have the luxury of taking time to heal or recover. I had children who depended on me so I had a job to do. My parents were the same way. I can’t really remember them dwelling on things. I have a wonderful life but not a perfect life. I think of heartache, joy, death, success and failure, sickness etc. as all being part of life. I cherish all of those moments because I don’t want to miss out on anything, even the bad stuff. It makes us who we are. We only get one shot at life!

Life is no picnic for many and for some they sail through life easily. Most people I know have had tough times whether through losing a loved one or more, just bad luck following them, have had an accident and been hurt badly, domestic violence situations and the list goes on. All we can do is put one foot in front of the other and hope each day we can get a plus in some way. I always say you can go forward one step and back two or three but eventually get there.

LERN WHERRE TO GET FREE FOOD IN YOUR AREA WOULD HELP

I find life harder. I've tried different paths in my life. I've always started off jobs and projects anxious for things to go well, which they always do. But somehow after a time ( months or years ) things always go pear shaped and I end up leaving and starting all over looking for another job or project. This has led to serious depression and a lot of frustrations. Feels like I'm walking through thick mud and getting nowhere.😑

No money then harder life

Maybe just harder in this incarnation.

Sometimes it could be made harder because of the mindset of the individual ...

Combination of both internal and external factors.