Growing up, I had great girl friendships. In high school, when we discussed boys we liked, we cheered on each other's hopes to date said boys we individually liked. But there was that one girl friend, who would go after every boy we liked. She was beautiful, and really fun to hang out with, but I'd say this was a big no-no in our sisters' club. I've always been loyal to my friends and just to women in general. From my mother, sisters and girlfriends growing up, I was taught the sisters' club code - which is you don't go after married men, and you turn down the flirtations and advances of married men and men who are in a relationship. But I have never understood why certain women, like my school friend, go after married men or accepted the advances of men when they know they are married or in a relationship with someone else. What do you think? Do you also know what causes some women to break the sisters' club code? |